ANDREW BARIST, LCSW
I am a Licensed Psychotherapist practicing in Westchester County and through online video sessions. I have a graduate degree in Social Work from Fordham University and postgraduate training in Psychodynamic Clinical Practice at the National Institute for the Psychotherapies in New York City.
I work with adults 18 and over on a variety of issues including:
Depression
Anxiety
Trauma
Marital and relationship issues
Family and peer conflicts
Professional and scholastic struggles
Stress
Self esteem
Now that I’ve search engine optimized this section of my website, I’m going to invite you to throw out all of those terms and look at therapy from a different perspective. Terms like ‘depression’, ‘anxiety’ and ‘trauma’ can be useful and informative but are also limited. They are not descriptive terms that convey what the real problem is; that is, they do not describe a person’s actual lived struggles or problems.
Here is a list of phrases that, in my experience, speak to why people actually come to therapy:
I'm afraid that I'm becoming just like my mother/father
I keep having the same problems in life over and over again
There’s a voice inside my head that is constantly criticizing me
I have no idea what to do with my life
Everyone is always asking how I feel about things, but I usually don’t feel anything at all
There are parts of myself that I’m ashamed of and, in spite of my best efforts, I can’t always hide them from others
If I’m not working or thinking about work, I’m not sure what to do with myself
I can’t make connections with people and I don’t know why
The only emotion I learned to express was anger
I don’t have anyone I can really talk to